Just the other day I read an article from Corkboard Connections, “What Makes A Parent Love A Teacher.” You can read it here, and I highly recommend you do! The gist is that, over the years, the teachers that stand out and make a lasting impression are the teachers that took the time to develop meaningful relationships with their students — they got to know them as more than just another kid in the class.
In general, I feel like I do a pretty good job of this. My students and I talk about what they did over the weekend, how the play is going, or whether they won their game or not. I generally go to at least one game for each sport, and for the sports I like, I often go to more. (I have to admit, two soccer games a year is enough for me…) I attend the school plays and other special events — (Monster Bingo? Uh yah!). All in all, I think I do a decent job.
But after reading this article, I decided I wanted to do better. For most students, I know which parents are together and which ones are divorced, I know they have a brother in 2A or a sister in 8B. But do they have siblings outside of our school? What days do they spend with mom, which days do they spend with dad? Does mom work? Do they have step-parents or step-siblings? What do they want to be when they grow up? What is their hands-down, favorite science topic? What do they want to be when they grow up? What do they want to accomplish this year? I realized that for many students, I don’t know these things, and I figured out that these are the things I want to know about them. I realized that the “beginning-of-year survey” I gave to…
1) get contact information for parents, and
2) get to know the kids
… didn’t have the kind of information I now felt was important.
So yesterday, I had the kids fill out a new form.
Actually, it wasn’t a form at all. It was a piece of loose-leaf, and they answered seven questions that I had written on the board.
2. Best Way To Learn
3. Favorite Subject
4. Favorite Science Topic
5. Clubs, Hobbies, Sports & Activities
6. Family (Who lives with you? Brothers? Sisters? Ages/Grades? Pets?)
7. Goals (For this year? What do you want to be when you grow up?)
While at some point or another, students have told me some of these things, or some of the elements were on the beginning-of-year survey, I never thought about organizing the data I collected. In the article, the author linked to a resource from Cult of Pedagogy, called the “Deep Data At A Glance chart.” I checked hers out, but I ultimately decided to make my own. First, I didn’t like it being a Word document, because I find that charts get all funky on Word sometimes. Second, I wasn’t happy with those categories, so I had to type new ones up anyway. Third, I like things to have pretty font, so I used some I had downloaded to my own computer. I put all of this into an Excel chart and then typed up my student responses.
Side Note: My students were really excited to answer these questions, and I was surprised at the time and consideration they put into it. Some were confused why we were doing this in the middle of the year — I simply told them I wanted to know these things. They seemed happy. I’m hoping to be able to incorporate some of what I have learned into future conversations and what not. I’m also glad I came across this before parent-teacher conferences next week!!
So while I created my own chart, I was SO PLEASED with the idea, and I totally give credit to that article and Cult of Pedagogy. It’s not like it was a complicated idea, but for some reason, it never occurred to me — which is a little surprising because I really like data. Collecting it, organizing it, using it, tracking how it changes, etc. Anyway, it was a great idea, and I am glad it was shared with me!
I created both an Excel and editable PDF of my data sheet. You can access it for FREE at my TeachersPayTeachers store. Simply click EXCEL if you’d like the Excel version or PDF if you’d like the PDF version. The Excel won’t have the pretty font, but the PDF will.
All in all, I hope you take the time to read that article — it’s a good reminder. Yes, these are things we all try to do, but in the craziness of the day, the month, the year, it’s all too easy for these things to get shuffled to the side. I’m glad I was reminded to continue to take the time to really know these awesome kids: